September
is known as National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month. We want to make
sure to give resources to students and families surrounding this really
difficult topic. One thing that we do each year is present the Signs of
Suicide (SOS) program to the 9th grade class. We want students to know
how to be a compassionate friend to others who may need help and to give them
the skills and tools they need so they don't feel like they have to shoulder
all of the concerns. The purpose is NOT to diagnose anyone! Often when
students are confronted by another student who shares these thoughts with them,
they don't know what to do. This program is designed to assist and get
students in touch with warning signs in an effort to prevent a tragedy from
occurring.
The
acronym that is used throughout the SOS program is A.C.T.. We are not
referring to the college admissions test. We are talking about ACKNOWLEDGING their
own feelings or their friend's feelings and listening to what they have to share.
We talk about CARING responses and how to show
compassion to others in a difficult moment. And, finally, we talk about
how to TELL a responsible adult the concerns so that they or
the friend can get the help they need.
We
never want to ignore a warning sign from a student in crisis. As a community,
we need to have each other’s backs and be on the lookout for students in need.
We should be fostering a support system for all students. In an
ideal world, every student would have a friend to sit with at lunch, be
involved in an activity, have mentors, feel successful in academics, have an
environment at home that was loving and supportive, and would feel happy and
healthy throughout adolescence. Unfortunately, that is not always the
case. We cannot control every factor, but we can do our best to be a light in
their world! Some students struggle every day to persist in their
everyday activities - and there are days that it just seems unbearable.
Hopefully, we can be a community that has positive influence on each
other, be the community that opens its arms to those who need it, and be the
community that can step up and show love and compassion rather than doubt and
judgment. Let's do this!
Here
are just a few of the warning signs that a student in crisis might show:
- Threats or
comments about killing themselves, also known as suicidal ideation, can
begin with seemingly harmless thoughts like “I wish I wasn’t here” but can
become more overt and dangerous
- Increased
alcohol and drug use
- Aggressive
behavior
- Social
withdrawal from friends, family and the community
- Dramatic
mood swings
- Talking,
writing or thinking about death
- Impulsive
or reckless behavior
- Giving away
items that are important to them
Let's
chat about ways a student can get help! Students in crisis can get help
from an adult immediately. At school, a student may share information
with a teacher, coach, or counselor and all of us have been trained on suicide
prevention protocol. Outside of school, there are also many people who
can help – trusted adults may include a parent, minister/pastor, coach,
aunt/uncle, grandparent, etc. The first step is to ask for help which
can be really scary and overwhelming at first.
There
are also crisis hotlines to assist.
- Fulton
County Department of Mental Health Hotline - 404-730-1600
- Georgia
Crisis & Access Line - 1-800-715-4225
- National
Crisis Line - 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
- Suicide
Prevention Hotline - 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433).
The
National Alliance on Mental Illness states: Suicidal thoughts can affect anyone
regardless of age, gender or background. Suicide is the 3rd leading cause
of death among young people and is often the result of mental health conditions
that effect people when are most vulnerable. The good news is, there is
HOPE!! There are so many resources to support students through this
difficult time in their life.
It
is difficult to do so when every day is a battle. So, if someone is
feeling hopeless and wants to hurt themselves - please use the ACT protocol
of Acknowledge their concerns and listen to their struggles. Care
about them! Let them know you want to help. The last step, again,
is to Tell a trusted adult so that they can get the help that is needed.
Do not promise to keep secrets.
Our
hope is that if a student or other person feels this way, they will reach out
for support. Our goal is for students to live happy, healthy, productive
lives.